Monday, 16 December 2013

Unforgiveness - is it worth the misery?


Part Three

"Forgive and Remember" (3) Something on unforgiveness.... Quoted from Jerry Sittser."

  • Unforgiveness is different from anger, grief or the desire for justice.
  • Unforgiveness is as ruinous as a plague.
  • The destruction of unforgiveness can occur on a large scale as we see in Northern Ireland or in the Middle East.
  •  Unforgiveness can also occur on a small scale as we observe in gang warfare, family feuds and conflict between former friends.
  •  In the name of unforgiveness, people can do terrible things.
  • Unforgiveness uses victimisation as an excuse.  Unforgiving people become obsessed with the wrong done to them.
  • The unforgiving person claims to be in the right and this may very well be so. But I wonder sometimes if being right is worth the misery it causes?
  •  Is it worth living in the bondage to unforgiveness?  Is it worth the cycle of destruction it perpetrates?
To be continued.
To view Parts 1-3, please click on this link.