Friday, 27 December 2013

Pride and Humility


Tim Keller paraphrased Jonathan Edwards on Pride and Humility as follows:

My life for you (your needs above mine)
or
My life for me (my needs above yours)

Spiritual pride and spiritual humility.
1)   Spiritual pride makes you more aware of others’ faults than you are of your own faults.  Humility makes you far more aware of your own faults than the faults of others.
2)  Pride leads you to speak of others with an air of contempt.  Humility speaks of others’ faults with grief and mercy.
3)  Pride leads you to break ties quickly with those you have criticised.  Humility means you stick with people through difficult relationships.
4)  A proud person is dogmatic and sure about every point of belief and they cannot distinguish between major and minor points of belief.  Everything the proud person believes is major. He cannot stand to be contradicted.  The humble person is flexible and is not out to merely win, but to heal.
5)  A proud person either loves to confront because he loves winning or he refuses to confront because he doesn’t like losing an argument.  A humble person confronts when necessary.
6)  A proud person is often unhappy and sorry for himself because he believes he knows what is best for him and he's convinced he deserves the good life.  Humble people say I’m alive because of the grace of  God and I don’t always know what is best for me.  A humble person does not grumble about life.

I listened to Tim Keller's sermon on James 4 and was so gripped that I started to make notes to go back to again and again. If you go to this link you will find Keller's audio sermon on the Gospel Coalition webpage.

Here is a further post from notes on Tim Keller's sermon:  "The Enormity of God's Love"